It is not adapters, just PHY chips, so wake-up capabilities depends on motherboard, chipset and BIOS, also on PSU (+5VSB stand-by power). So, what motherboards do you have issues with?
These are HP motherboards, the 2215, 2216, 2255. The 221C works and the only difference is that is has a Realtek adapter.
Please check in the BIOS if there is any wake on lan option need to enable. Have you also contact the motherobard vendor regarding this issue as this is onboard NIC.