For Windows 10, you need version 20.2 of the LAN package. You can download it from here: https://downloadcenter.intel.com/download/24198/LAN-Intel-Gigabit-Ethernet-Controller-driver-for-Intel-NUC. I haven't tried it myself, but folks are saying it worked for them...
thanks will try it next weekend!
It seems that you were going to do the suggestion given by N.Scott.Pearson, can you please provide us with your findings after doing that?