Hello Griinder, it is very important to use the correct memory on your system in order to use the i3-3220 processor without generating any damage. (DDR3-1333/1600)
However, the issue that you are experiencing could be related to the compatibility between the H61 chipset and the 3rd generation processors. It is require updating the BIOS to use the I3-3220 processor on this motherboard.
For additional information you may want to check the following web site. Since you are not using an Intel motherboard you would need to contact the motherboard manufacture in order to get the correct BIOS version.