Unfortunately, Intel does not qualify drivers for the 82583V on Windows Server 2008 or 2008 R2. I don't know what operating systems IEI supports with drivers on your board. You should check with IEI to see if they have drivers qualified for your versions of Windows.
I agree that driver wasn't qualifed for Windows Server 2008
but following video tutorial will show You step by step how to install:
Intel LAN driver 82583V Gigabit Ethernet Ethernet Controller
under Microsoft Windows Server 2008.
It was done on Advantech motherboard PCE-5125 with same network card.
Can you please let me know how to modify the inf file to install drivers for 82583V on Server OS?