I personally will chose the Intel(R) Core(TM) i7 Processor 920. The 920 has triple channel memory at 1066Mhz that will be much better than 1333MHz at dual channel.
Also the 920 has better features.
You can compare them here:
I would go with the 860. The cpu is faster than the 920. The memory is dual channel as opposed to triple channel, but the ram will be faster than the stock ram with the 920. The 860 also has lower power consumption than the 920, therefore it should keep lower temperatures and in my experience lower temps will mean a longer life and less problems. Hope my opinion can help you out, whichever you decide you won't be going wrong.
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