I suggest that you test for either a bad DIMM or a bad (or noisy) DIMM socket. Test with a single DIMM and try using it in each of the DIMM sockets. If it works ok, test with a different DIMM. If all of the DIMMs work fine when used individually and in every DIMM socket, move up to test with two DIMMs, trying them in separate channels and in the same channel.
I hope this helps - and yea, I understand that it is a slow and painful process, but you won't know unless you try...
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