I understand that you are looking for information regarding the memory supported on your motherboard and if your motherboard may be defective.
Intel(R) Desktop Board DX58SO2 will support a large variety of memory modules as the memory controller is not on the motherboard but on the processor itself.
The supported memory specifications for this motherboard can be found at the following web site:
Now, as the processor has the memory controller built in, it will have some additional requirements. I recommend you to look-up your processor model number on the following web site and check for the supported memory specifications:
Please note that the RAM memory voltage should stay in 1.5v +/- 5 percent.